Wednesday, June 26, 2019

Toxic masculinity, misogyny and violence, what is wrong with Kabeer Singh?


Image result for kabeer singhThere are two type of people. First who have a brain and can discern fact from fiction. The second who are stuck in fifth grade, forever, and need constant assistance to identify truth from fiction. The people in second category are also the ones who would jump with joy when they see or do things they love. Show them something uncomfortable and they start whining and throw their toys out of their prams. There is little hope that these people would ever grow up.

The current debate around Kabeer Singh is in fact a debate between these two sets of people. There are people who went and watched the movie for what it is, a fiction meant for entertainment. Then there were people who went to watch it and got pissed off because, toxic masculinity, misogyny and other such things. What these people forget is that cinema like painting, sculpting & writing is an art. No one can dictate a painter on what they can paint or not paint. A sculptor can carve what they want to carve. Similarly a director can make a movie, the way they find it right. It is their artistic freedom.

People who are pissed off at the violence and misogyny in Kabeer Singh should understand that the director chose to depict a character. A character who is violent and misogynist. The director has no moral obligation to create a character that is nice and likable. The director is not in the business of sending out moral messages to the public. The director is an artist and they do their job the way they want to. One might not like it, but that is a totally different case. We all have our preferences when it comes to cinema or for that matter any other art form.

In the past we have seen people getting pissed off at art projects, be it M. F. Hussain’s Saraswati, or Rajamauli’s Bahubali and now Kabeer Singh. Some section of the society always gets unhappy with what an artist produces. This kind of, ‘I am so angry’, ‘this is not what should be promoted’ statements are becoming very common these days. As if their happiness or anger matters to anyone. Be angry and unhappy all you want. But spare the director and their art.

The problem with self-appointed nationalist bhakts and feminists have one thing in common. They can’t stand a counter view. They are in fact so far apart, that they converge and become one. Like two sides of the same coin. Their selective outrage is nothing but blatant hypocrisy, which they, miraculously, fail to see. If one wants to outrage because a film is ‘promoting’ or ‘justifying’ violence, misogyny or toxic whatever, then they should outrage for Haider, Raees, Sanju, and all those gangster movies. Because these movies glorify violence and organized crime. They should also outrage on objectification of women and men in cinema. But no, these are the same people who would happily gyrate on ‘Chikni Chameli…’ and then sit down to discuss how women are being objectified in Bollywood.

So dear ladies and gentlemen, grow up, learn and start behaving like adults.